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Welcome. This space is a reflection of my journey—navigating mental health, recovery, queerness, and trans identity, all while breaking the stigma around ketamine therapy. Through advocacy and storytelling, I hope to create something real, something that sparks connection and change.

We are fighting for our rights, for acceptance, and for the world to see us as we truly are. Together, we can push for change, challenge the systems that try to silence us, and build a community that stands strong, unapologetic, and united.

Stick around for personal stories, resources, and ways to show up for yourself and others. Check out the blog on Patreon, shop, and socials to be part of the movement.

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Coming Soon:

The True You Podcast; a PaceySpeaks production.

True You—a raw, unapologetic dive into the intersection of being queer, battling mental health struggles, and navigating recovery. After finding a second chance at life through ketamine therapy, I’m here to bring you real stories and unfiltered conversations about what it takes to stay authentic in a world where our rights are under attack

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Who is Pacey?

An advocate, storyteller, and someone who has faced the ups and downs of finding strength in vulnerability.

As a queer, trans individual navigating mental health and recovery, I use my story to fight for change, challenge stigmas, and create a space where authenticity and resilience are celebrated. Through my journey, I aim to empower others to embrace their true selves and spark real, meaningful connections.

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  • After Ketamine: Sitting With the Sadness I Used...

    Pacey Speaks

    The feeling eating away at me most, though, is fear. It is an abject terror because I know from experience, that the sadness always comes back. It is always lurking...

    After Ketamine: Sitting With the Sadness I Used...

    Pacey Speaks

    The feeling eating away at me most, though, is fear. It is an abject terror because I know from experience, that the sadness always comes back. It is always lurking...

  • The Cost of Surviving Hate: My Humanity

    Pacey Speaks

    I didn’t recognize the angry person I’d become. I’d spent the last few years focusing on my recovery and living as authentically as possible; a lot of that involved letting...

    The Cost of Surviving Hate: My Humanity

    Pacey Speaks

    I didn’t recognize the angry person I’d become. I’d spent the last few years focusing on my recovery and living as authentically as possible; a lot of that involved letting...

  • Why do conservatives actually hate trans people?

    Why do conservatives actually hate trans people?

    Pacey Speaks

    Spreading misinformation (and outright denouncing facts) serves to reinforce the negative beliefs people already have about the marginalized group, leading to more exclusion. This contributes to the “us vs them”...

    Why do conservatives actually hate trans people?

    Pacey Speaks

    Spreading misinformation (and outright denouncing facts) serves to reinforce the negative beliefs people already have about the marginalized group, leading to more exclusion. This contributes to the “us vs them”...

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