I'm glad you found me

This space is built from my own lived experience—through addiction, mental health struggles, recovery, queerness, and finding myself as a trans person. I talk openly about ketamine therapy, not as a cure-all, but as one piece of the messy, beautiful puzzle of healing.

I share stories because they matter. Because so many of us are fighting just to be seen, to stay alive, and to live with dignity. This is about truth-telling. It’s about refusing to stay silent while systems try to erase us.

Here, we get real. We connect. We fight back. And we build something that feels like hope.

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Unfiltered stories from the frontlines of healing. I write about recovery, ketamine therapy, and what it means to survive and thrive as a queer, trans person in today’s world. You’ll also find real-time updates on news that impacts our community—because staying informed is part of staying alive.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re rebuilding your life from scratch, this is for you.

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Who is Pacey?

An advocate, storyteller, and someone who has faced the ups and downs of finding strength in vulnerability.

As a queer, trans individual navigating mental health and recovery, I use my story to fight for change, challenge stigmas, and create a space where authenticity and resilience are celebrated. Through my journey, I aim to empower others to embrace their true selves and spark real, meaningful connections.

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